By Joel Osteen
God has
promised if we will put our trust in Him, He will pay us back
for all the unfair things that have happened to us. Maybe you
were cheated in a business deal and you lost a lot of money.
Maybe somebody lied about you, and that misinformation kept you
from getting a promotion. Or maybe a good friend betrayed you.
Certainly, these kinds of losses leave indelible scars, causing
you to want to hold on to your grief. It would be logical for
you to seek revenge. Many people would even encourage you to do
so. The slogan “Don’t get mad, get even!” is a commonly accepted
principle in America today.
But
that is not God’s plan for you. If you want to live your best
life now, you must learn to trust God to bring about the justice
in your life. The Bible says, “God is a just God and He will
settle and solve the cases of His people.” That means you don’t
have to go around trying to pay everybody back for the wrong
things they’ve done to you. You don’t have to go around trying
to get even with people. God is your vindicator. You need to
start letting God fight your battles for you. Let God settle
your cases. God has promised if you’ll turn matters over to Him
and let Him handle them His way, He’ll make your wrongs right.
He’ll bring justice into your life.
Somebody in your life may not be treating you right. They may be
saying things about you that aren’t true, spreading vicious
rumors, telling lies, trying to ruin your reputation, if you’re
like most people, you are probably tempted to get in there and
set the record straight. And you are probably tempted to let
them have it!
It
takes faith to believe that God wants to vindicate you, but He
really does. Don’t make the mistake of sinking down to your
offenders’ level, getting into arguments and fighting. That will
just make matters worse. Leave it up to God. Take the high road,
respond in love, and watch what God will do. If you will do it
God’s way, He’ll not only fight your battles for you, but in the
end, you’ll come out better off than you were before.
God Keeps Good Records
Sometimes God
allows us to go through certain things to test us. If you have somebody
in your life right now who is not treating you right, that situation may
very well be a test of your faith. God is interested in seeing how you
are going to respond. Will you become negative, bitter, or angry? Are
you going to develop a vindictive attitude, always trying to pay people
back? Or, are you going to turn it over to God, trusting Him to make the
wrongs right? Are you going to pass that test so God can promote you?
Maybe
your boss isn’t treating you right. You’re doing all the work,
but it seems that you’re not getting any of the credit.
Everybody else gets promoted in the company except you. You may
be tempted to mope around with a sour attitude, with a
poor-old-me mentality.
Instead, you need to keep a good attitude and start trusting God
to make it up to you. You must understand, you are not working
merely for that person. You are not employed merely by that
company. You are working for God! And God sees every wrong
that’s being done to you. God is keeping good records. He’s
closely watching your situation, and He said that He’s going to
pay you back. And friend, when God pays back, He always pays
back in abundance.
When
God wants you to be promoted, it doesn’t matter whether your
boss likes you or not; your future is not dependent on what your
boss does or doesn’t do. God is in control. The Bible says that
promotion doesn’t come from the north, south, east, or west. In
other words, promotion doesn’t come from your boss, your
supervisor, or your company. No, true promotion comes from
Almighty God. And when God says it is time for you to advance up
the ladder, all the forces of darkness cannot hold you down. You
will he promoted.
Moreover,
God will not allow somebody to continually mistreat you. If you will do
your part, keep a good attitude, and turn your circumstances over to
Him, sooner or later God will bring justice into your life. Sometimes
when we don’t see anything happening month after month, maybe even year
after year, it’s tempting to become manipulative, to attempt to make
things happen on our own. When we do that, we risk interfering with
God’s plans and purposes, creating another mess for Him to clean up, and
possibly even keeping God from doing what He really wants to do in that
situation.“
But Joel, everybody is
getting so far ahead of me,” Darla lamented.
“When is it going to
be my turn? All my friends are getting married; everybody I graduated
with is making big money and living comfortably; everybody is being
promoted in my company except me.
You may have
concerns similar to Darla’s, but understand, God is a
supernatural God. One touch of His favor can make up any lost
ground, plus give you so much more. One touch of God’s favor can
bring the right person into your life or put you in charge of
that entire organization.
I met a man
not long ago who worked as a mechanic at a large diesel-truck
shop where they serviced 18-wheelers. He told me that for many
years he was not treated properly at his place of employment. It
was an extremely negative environment, and his coworkers often
made fun of him because he wouldn’t go out and party with them
after work. Year after year, he put up with all sorts of
injustice and ridicule. He was one of the best mechanics on
staff, consistently one of their top producers, but for seven
years, he never received a pay raise, he didn’t get a bonus, he
didn’t get any sort of increase—because his supervisor didn’t
like him.
That mechanic
could have grown bitter. He could have quit and found work
elsewhere; he could have developed a chip on his shoulder and
gotten mad at the world. But instead, he continued to do his
best. He worked hard and kept his mouth shut, knowing that God
was his vindicator. He wasn’t working to please his supervisor;
he was working to please God.
One day, out
of the blue, the owner of the company called him. This owner
wasn’t involved in the day-to-day operations, so the mechanic
had never before met him. But the owner told him that he was
ready to retire, and he was looking for somebody to take over
the business. “I’d like you to have it,” the owner said to the
mechanic.
“You know,
sir, I’d love to have it,” said the mechanic, “but I don’t have
enough money to buy your business.”
“No, you don’t
understand,” replied the owner. “You don’t need the money I have money.
I’m looking for somebody to take over the business. I’m looking for
someone I can trust to continue the work I have started. I want to give
it to you.
Today, the mechanic
owns that company free and clear!
During our
conversation, I asked him, “What caused that owner to call you?”
He said, “Joel, to
this day I don’t know how he got my name. I don’t know why he chose me.
All I know is that almost overnight, I went from being the lowest man on
the totem pole to the person in charge of the whole company!” He laughed
and said, “You know, Joel, they don’t make fun of me in the shop
anymore.
Friend, that is a good
example of God bringing justice into that man’s life. That’s God paying
him back for all those wrongs. God settled his case. God made his wrongs
right. And God wants to do the same sort of thing for you.
You may say, “Joel,
that sounds kind of far out to me.
Understand, we serve a
God who wants to do more than you can ask or think, it doesn’t matter
how people are treating you. Keep doing the right thing; don’t get
offended; don’t let them get you upset; don’t try to pay them back,
returning evil for evil.
Instead, keep
extending forgiveness; keep responding in love. If you do that, then
when it comes time for you to be promoted, God will make sure it
happens. He’ll make sure you get everything you deserve, and more!
Turn it over to God
The key is, you must
turn it over to God. Let Him do it His way. The Scripture says, “Never
avenge yourselves, but leave the way open for [God’s] wrath.” Notice, if
you try to pay people back, you are closing the door for God to do it.
You can either do it God’s way, or you can do it your way. If you’re
going to let God handle it, you can’t have the attitude of: I’m going to
show them what I’m made of. That will prevent God from avenging you His
way. If you want to keep that door open so God can bring true justice
into your life, you have to totally turn it over to Him.
Somebody may be saying
nasty things about you behind your back. Your attitude should be: No
big deal. God’s got me covered. He’s going to make it up to me.
If somebody cheats you
out of some money: No big deal. God’s promised me double. They don’t
owe me anything. God, I’ll give it to them, because I know You can repay
me with twice as much. I’m not going to worry about it; I release it
right now.
If somebody invites
all your friends out to dinner but they exclude you, your attitude
should be: No big deal. God knows what I need. He will bring new
friends into my life.
What a
liberating way to live! When you truly understand that you don’t have to
fix everything that happens to you, you don’t have to get all upset and
try to pay somebody back for what they did or didn’t do. You don’t have
to get worried or try to manipulate the situation. When you know that
God is fighting your battles, and He has promised to make your wrongs
right, you can walk with a new confidence, with a spring in your step, a
smile on your face, and a song in your heart. You are free!
When you have
that kind of attitude, you are leaving the door wide open for God to pay
you back. And remember, God always pays back abundantly.
A few years
ago, Victoria and I had somebody in our lives who really did us wrong in
a business deal. This person didn’t keep his end of the bargain. He did
some things that were questionable and ended up cheating us out of a lot
of money.
Many times,
Victoria and I were tempted to fight the battle in our own strength. We
were tempted to want to pay him back and make his life miserable. After
all, he made us suffer; why not make him suffer? It was difficult, but
we had to force ourselves to do the right thing, which was to turn the
matter over to God.
We said, “God,
you see what’s happening. You know we’re being mistreated. You know that
what this man is doing is wrong. But God, we’re not going to try to get
even. We’re not going to try to avenge ourselves. We’re going to leave
that door open, counting on You to make it up to us.
This process
continued for several years, and we didn’t see any change. We had to
keep reminding ourselves that God is a God of justice. God is going
to pay us back for doing the right thing. God is going to settle our
case.
One day, out of
the clear blue, God supernaturally stepped in and turned that situation
around. He not only moved that man out of our lives, but He paid us back
in abundance for everything he had taken. Sadly, the man who tried to
cheat us eventually lost his family, his business, his reputation -
everything. And I certainly don’t wish that on anybody, but that, too,
is the justice of God. You cannot go around continually doing wrong,
cheating people, and sowing bad seeds and not expect it to eventually
catch up to you. We will reap exactly what we’ve sown.
Victoria and I
were recently discussing how much God has paid us back. I don’t say it
arrogantly, but God has blessed us abundantly. He has prospered us
through several real estate deals so we live in a lovely home and have
all the material things we need. He’s blessed us with wonderful children
and a fantastic extended family. He’s promoted us and given us positions
of leadership. He’s done more than we can ask or think. But had we not
learned how to pass those kinds of tests, I really don’t believe we’d be
where we are today. If we had been stubborn and fought with the man who
was doing us wrong, or if we had become bitter and angry, or held
resentment in our hearts toward that man, God would not have promoted
us.
If you will
leave your situation up to God, in the end you’ll come out much better
off. You will be far ahead of where you would have been had you tried to
solve matters in your own strength. God can truly bring justice into our
lives.
Maybe you’ve
been working through a situation and you’ve been doing the right thing
for a long time. You’ve been taking the high road and forgiving somebody
again and again. You keep overlooking their faults. You keep biting your
tongue when they are rude to you. You have kept a good attitude even
though they have mistreated you. Perhaps this has been going on month
after month, maybe year after year, and now you’re tempted to get
discouraged. You’re wondering, Is God ever going to change this
situation? Is God ever going to bring about justice? Does He even care
about what I’m going through?
Don’t give up!
Keep doing the right thing. God is building character in you, and you
are passing that test. Remember, the greater the struggle, the greater
the reward.
The Scripture
says, “Don’t get tired of doing what’s right for in due season you shall
reap if you don’t faint.” Don’t grow weary; God will bring justice into
your life.
We must trust
God to bring justice in His timing, not ours. Sometimes, it doesn’t
happen overnight. Sometimes you’re going to have to love somebody who’s
unlovable for a long period of time. Sometimes you’re going to have to
do the right thing when the wrong thing is happening to you, and it may
be a long time before you see any kind of change. It may require a
strong will on your part, and a determination to trust despite the odds.
When David was
just a young man, he was anointed by the prophet Samuel to be the next
king of Israel. Not long after that, he defeated the giant Goliath, and
he became an instant hero throughout the land. People loved him, and his
popularity ratings soared off the charts. But King Saul, Israel’s ruler
at the time, became extremely jealous of David and started doing all
sorts of unfair things to David.
Sometimes Saul
would get sick, and David would play his harp for the king, soothing his
mind and helping Saul to feel better. But one day as David was playing
the harp for him, Saul suddenly picked up his spear and hurled it at
David! The spear barely missed him. David ran out of the room, fearing
for his life. When he realized that Saul was trying to kill him, he fled
to the mountains to hide. He had to live on the run, going from cave to
cave, month after month.
Think of it.
David hadn’t done anything wrong. He had treated Saul with respect and
honor, yet Saul turned around and paid him back by attempting to kill
him. Don’t you know David could easily have been bitter? He could have
easily said, “God, why is this guy trying to hurt me? I didn’t do
anything to him. God, I thought You chose me to he king. What’s going on
here?”
But David
didn’t do that. He kept a good attitude, refusing to hurt Saul, even
when he had the opportunity. Although Saul wasn’t treating him right,
David still respected Saul’s position of authority.
Somebody in
your life who has authority over you — a boss, a supervisor, a parent,
or somebody in a position of leadership—may be treating you unfairly.
You know that what they are doing is wrong, and they probably know it,
too. Consequently, you may be tempted to treat that person with disdain
or disrespect. It’s easy to rationalize or justify a wrong attitude
toward that person. After all, My boss is rude. He’s ungodly. I don’t
have to treat him respectfully. Or, My parents argue and fight all the
time. I’m not going to obey them. Or, My spouse doesn’t go to church
with me. How am I supposed to respect a person like that?
The truth is,
whether that person is behaving correctly or not, God expects us to
honor his or her position of authority. Don’t make excuses and try to
justify in your mind why you are free to speak or act disrespectfully
toward that person. If you refuse to live under authority, God will
never promote you to a position of greater authority
It’s easy to
respect those in positions of authority as long as they are being kind
to us or when we agree with that person. But the true test comes when
you get a “Saul” in your life, when somebody treats you unfairly for no
apparent reason.
Like David,
many people today have been chosen by God to do something great. God
wants to place them in positions of honor, positions of leadership, but
for some reason they don’t ever pass the test. Instead of trusting God,
they’re always trying to manipulate circumstances, to bring justice on
their own. Instead of just letting offenses go, forgiving the offender
and trusting God to make the wrongs right, they’re always trying to pay
back the “Sauls” in their lives. But there is a better way.
Back in the
late 1950s, my dad had everything in the world going for him. He was a
successful pastor of a thriving church in Houston, and the congregation
had just built a big, beautiful new building. Daddy was on the state
board for his denomination, and everyone regarded John Osteen as a
rising leader, on the way up in the hierarchy of the church. But in
1958, Daddy developed a desire to delve more deeply into the things of
God. He wasn’t satisfied to grow stagnant in his spiritual journeys, and
he didn’t want the church to become complacent either.
As Daddy
studied the Scriptures, he realized that God wanted to do more for His
people than what most folks were accustomed to receiving. Daddy was
excited about what he was learning from the Bible, and he began to share
his insights with the church. He told the congregation that he saw more
clearly that God was a good God, a heavenly Father, rather than a
demanding, impossible-to-please judge. Daddy taught the people that God
wanted them to be happy, healthy, and whole, and he began to pray for
people who were sick or otherwise in need.
Much to my
dad’s surprise, many of the people in that congregation didn’t
appreciate his fresh discoveries. They were steeped in their traditions,
and because Daddy’s enthusiastic, fiery messages weren’t exactly what
they were used to hearing, it made some of them uncomfortable. Even
though Daddy was teaching them right out of the Bible, they were upset
that the supernatural God Daddy described didn’t fit into their
denominational guidelines.
The
congregation took a vote to see whether they wanted Daddy to stay or to
leave. When the ballots were all counted, Daddy had plenty of votes to
stay, but during the next few months some of the people treated him so
badly and were so disrespectful to him that he knew the best thing he
could do for the church was to just move on. Naturally, he was
disappointed and heartbroken. He had poured his heart and soul into that
place, and now he would have to start all over again.
It wasn’t fair;
it wasn’t right. The congregation didn’t treat him as he deserved, and
Daddy could have easily left there bitter. He could have harbored anger
and resentment in his heart toward some of those people. But Daddy let
those hard feelings go. His attitude was: God, I know You’re going to
make this up to me. I know You will prosper me wherever I go, and You
will bring about justice in my life.
Daddy made the
decision that he was going to go with God, and in 1959, he left the
safety and security of that large, established church, and he went down
the road to a small, run-down, abandoned feed store called East Houston
Feed & Hardware. It was a beat—up, dirty building with holes in the
floor. But Daddy and approximately ninety other people cleaned it up,
and on Mother’s Day they started what they called “Lakewood Church.”
The critics
said, It’s never going to last, John. You don’t have a chance. Nobody
will come.” They said, “It’s going to blow over.”
Sure enough, it
did. It blew over the whole city! Today, it’s blowing over the entire
world! More than forty-five years later, Lakewood Church is still going
strong, still seeing God’s miracles, blessings, and favor, still
touching people all over the world.
God knows how
to bring justice into your life as well. If you will leave your concerns
in God’s hands, He will settle your cases. He will make your wrongs
right. He’s promised to take that evil and turn it around and use it to
your advantage. It doesn’t matter how badly somebody has hurt you, or
how far their actions or words have set you back, God can turn that
situation around and make it all up to you, plus much more!
Leave it to
God. Live a life of forgiveness. Don’t go around trying to pay people
back, trying to get revenge. God sees every wrong that’s being done to
you. God sees every person that’s ever hurt you. He’s keeping the
record, and the Scripture says if you don’t avenge yourself, God will
pay you back. And friend, He’ll not only pay you hack, He’ll pay you
hack in abundance.